There is an expression that we all come from childhood. And it is true. All emotions and experiences received by a child in childhood leave an almost indelible imprint on his adult life.
It is very difficult to correct negative children's emotions, such as fear, guilt and shame, unnatural squeezing, which "grew" together with their owner. Of course, with the competent work of experienced specialists, there is an opportunity to correct a great deal, however, it is easier to prevent than to cure already formed neuroses and depressions.
Why is it important to sing lullabies to a child?
It is a fact that a small child takes a long time to identify with his mother. And this is not surprising. First, for nine months, the child and the mother are in close connection, being essentially one. The whole life of the little man depends on the mother.
While still in the womb, the child is already experiencing his first emotions, both positive and negative. If the mother is happy, then this joy is transmitted to him, and if she is depressed and depressed, he feels fear. That is why the therapy of childhood fears should begin during fetal development. Do not underestimate this period of human life.
When the mother is calm, nothing disturbs her, and does not depress her, the baby will also not be nervous, he will have a peaceful sleep, and he will fully develop. The mother for several more years will be responsible for the inner world of the child, so it will depend on her whether her child will acquire the fears that will affect his subsequent life.
The sounds of the mother's voice in combination with the soothing music act on the child very beneficially and helpful. Our ancestors have long understood this. From ancient times mothers sang lullabies to their children. The children were not capricious and aggressive. The nation was healthy both physically and mentally. Concepts such as neurosis and depression simply did not exist. Of course, the technogenic world has completely changed the life of a person, but after all, everything starts small. Where are they - gentle mother hugs and tender voice, singing pacifying melody?
Now is becoming increasingly relevant return to basics. There was an understanding of the boundless wisdom that people who had long lived in the past had. You can not discount the invaluable experience of ancestors. That is why many mothers, joining ancient traditions, begin to sing lullabies.
What are your lullabies about?
How to sing if there is no voice, and there is a problem with hearing? Fortunately, singing lullabies does not require a special musical education. Neither the voice nor the ear is important to the child, only those emotions that the mother experiences while singing lullabies are important.
No need to memorize long texts. Words are not so important. You can sing about everything that happened over the past day and about what should happen tomorrow. You can sing about how the wind roars outside the window, about what the cat or dog is doing, and about how the stars are lit in the sky in the evening. And in your lullaby songs - predict the child a happy fate. It will be both a program and a prayer. Rhyme also does not play any role, however, as the melody. The main condition of a lullaby is a calm and sleepy melody.
Lullabies perfectly develop the child's native speech and can serve as an aid in its overall development. Therefore, let your lullabies be different every time, every time you will improvise. It is so simple - to give the child a sense of security and love. Just sing the lullabies!
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